What does it mean to take a risk? As kinksters, many of us engage in activities that carry some element of hazard, both physical and emotional. What is a sensible way to manage these risks?

In this episode we have the pleasure of chatting with Regina-, one of our most active supporters and contributors. Thanks Regina for a great conversation!

Direct download: PK_ep40.mp3
Category:kink -- posted at: 1:03 AM

In this episode we have a chat about polyamory. We start off with a conversation about the highlights so far, along with some of the more tricky challenges we've faced. We then turn to next steps and have an (at times weirdly heated) discussion about a poly personals ad we plan to put out on Fetlife, much of the debate centering on whether it's ok to be greedy. Spoilers alert: It is OK. Greed is good. Glad we settled that.

Direct download: PK_ep39.mp3
Category:polyamory -- posted at: 11:17 PM

And we're back with our first episode of 2015! Thanks so much everyone for bearing with us. In this episode, AlphaDomme, Miss Rose and Beta Boy have a relaxed living room chat about entry level kink: what kinds of play you can do if you're starting out and a bit unsure of where to begin.

Direct download: PK_ep38.mp3
Category:kink -- posted at: 7:00 PM

AlphaDomme and Betaboy discuss some listener feedback, shamelessly plug some of their stuffs and generally discuss the way their relationship works. If you haven't done so already, please subscribe to our podcast in Itunes or in any other RSS reader that floats your boat. You can find our Itunes feed here.


Direct download: PK_ep37.mp3
Category:relationships -- posted at: 8:28 PM

We have a special announcement to make. The Men Submit podcast is leveling up! A name change is imminent and a number of new cool features are in the pipeline. And if all that isn’t excitement enough, betaboy gets his testicles repeatedly zapped with a dog collar.

Direct download: mensubmit_ep36.mp3
Category:announcements -- posted at: 3:58 AM

Roles can be confusing in kink. You got your kajiras, your slaves, your tops, your bottoms, your pets, your toys your masters and mistresses and kinksters – to name but a few. In this episode we take a quick walk through the vast array of commonly used roles in the world of kink and offer our opinions on what they mean. If you are a newb to kink this episode is for you.

Direct download: mensubmit_ep35.mp3
Category:kink -- posted at: 4:00 PM

Men! This podcast is all about that moment of exasperation where women roll their eyes and utter the word “men” as though it were a swear word. It’s a sad fact that many men out there can behave like complete and total dicks when it comes to meeting women. This podcast episode casts a critical gaze over the vast array of dick moves men regularly perpetrate in the kink world. We explore the reasons behind, impact of and ways of avoiding said dickishness. This episode was recorded while we were drinking wine. It helped.

Direct download: mensubmit_ep34.mp3
Category:relationships -- posted at: 4:00 PM

Today we interview Kristina, CEO of xdress.com, a business that sells beautiful lingerie for men. She explains the history of the company, what inspired the bold move to wanting to make men look pretty and she tells us some stories of acceptance and prejudice. Betaboy has been wearing xdress undies for a few weeks now and is a very happy camper. AlphaDomme has no complaints either, although imho she has spent a little bit too long marvelling at the pictures she received of gorgeous models in said attire. You have to check this stuff out. You’ll find it at http://www.xdress.com

Direct download: mensubmit_ep33.mp3
Category:interview -- posted at: 7:00 PM

In this episode we gab about stealth submission – or as AlphaDomme terms it, “stealth topping”. This is the idea that a submissive male can quietly sneak his submission into a vanilla relationship. We talk about why this tactic fails the great majority of the time and what better approaches a submissive guy can take if he desires to introduce power exchange into his relationship. Then our conversation takes a sharp left turn and shifts heavily into AlphaDomme’s and MissRose’s attitude toward penises, in their many and varied forms.

Direct download: mensubmit_ep32.mp3
Category:relationships -- posted at: 7:00 PM

In this follow up scene, AlphaDomme, MissRose and BetaBoy play out the scene they had planned and then debrief on what it felt like. The recording quality is not brilliant (on account of the fact that it was recorded in a bedroom!) but you’ll hear a lot of screaming and laughing, which hopefully will make up for any technical deficiencies.

Direct download: mensubmit_ep31.mp3
Category:kink -- posted at: 7:00 PM