If you are new to kink, how do you figure things out? How do you learn about what you want? How do you go about meeting people? We get this kind of question all the time, so in this podcast we have a quick chat about what to do and what not to do.

Direct download: PK_ep49.mp3
Category:kink -- posted at: 5:00am PST

We chat about a typical day in our household: how we live out our power exchange, make poly work and generally get practical yet incredibly important stuff done - like breakfast. 

Direct download: PK_ep48.mp3
Category:polyamory -- posted at: 10:30am PST

This episode is about male appearance and what dommes look for. We discuss physique, manner, etiquette, body language and even mansmetics.

Direct download: PK_ep47.mp3
Category:kink -- posted at: 1:15pm PST

Expectations, great or otherwise, form part of any relationship. In this episode we talk about the kinds of expectations you might encounter in a D/s relationships and offer some ideas on how to approach them.

Direct download: PK_ep46.mp3
Category:kink -- posted at: 1:36pm PST

Just a quick update on our big upcoming European vacation! To our British, French, Swiss and Dutch listeners - we'd love to meet you!

Direct download: PK_ep45.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 5:53pm PST

In this episode we raid our kink cabinet and tell you all about the weird and wonderful goodies that lurk inside.


Direct download: PK_ep44.mp3
Category:kink -- posted at: 3:24pm PST

Continuing our trend of long, deep and meaningful conversations, this conversation between AlphaDomme, MissRose, Mistress Hilda and beta_boy is an in-depth look into the guiding principles we have established in making a kinky, polyamorous relationship work.

Direct download: PK_ep43.mp3
Category:polyamory -- posted at: 8:01pm PST

In episode 4 (three years ago now!) we published an episode called "The Big Talk". We were actually pretty uncomfortable about releasing it at the time, because we felt it revealed a lot of the kink and relationship issues we were struggling with. Then we realized that this is the whole point of hosting a podcast so we went ahead. It remains one of our most popular episodes.

In episode 42 we decided it was high time to do a follow up episode which predictably enough we decided to title "The Bigger Talk". In it we take some time to pat ourselves on the back at how far we've come and we compare notes on the ways in which our relationship has shifted between episode 4 and now.

I also decided to leave in the bit where we go and check on soup, because if we have learned anything, big moments are often made up of little ones. Also it was REALLY good soup.

Direct download: PK_ep42.mp3
Category:relationships -- posted at: 3:37pm PST

Sometimes you just want to cozy up with your kinky friends and loved ones and spend a wholesome hour or two playing a board game. This is especially true when it's cold and wintry outside. In this episode (after I get zapped a few times) we talk about some of our favorite board games and why we love them.

Direct download: PK_ep41.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 3:19pm PST

What does it mean to take a risk? As kinksters, many of us engage in activities that carry some element of hazard, both physical and emotional. What is a sensible way to manage these risks?

In this episode we have the pleasure of chatting with Regina-, one of our most active supporters and contributors. Thanks Regina for a great conversation!

Direct download: PK_ep40.mp3
Category:kink -- posted at: 5:03pm PST