If you are new to kink, how do you figure things out? How do you learn about what you want? How do you go about meeting people? We get this kind of question all the time, so in this podcast we have a quick chat about what to do and what not to do.

Direct download: PK_ep49.mp3
Category:kink -- posted at: 5:00am PST

This episode is about male appearance and what dommes look for. We discuss physique, manner, etiquette, body language and even mansmetics.

Direct download: PK_ep47.mp3
Category:kink -- posted at: 1:15pm PST

Expectations, great or otherwise, form part of any relationship. In this episode we talk about the kinds of expectations you might encounter in a D/s relationships and offer some ideas on how to approach them.

Direct download: PK_ep46.mp3
Category:kink -- posted at: 1:36pm PST

In this episode we raid our kink cabinet and tell you all about the weird and wonderful goodies that lurk inside.


Direct download: PK_ep44.mp3
Category:kink -- posted at: 3:24pm PST

What does it mean to take a risk? As kinksters, many of us engage in activities that carry some element of hazard, both physical and emotional. What is a sensible way to manage these risks?

In this episode we have the pleasure of chatting with Regina-, one of our most active supporters and contributors. Thanks Regina for a great conversation!

Direct download: PK_ep40.mp3
Category:kink -- posted at: 5:03pm PST

And we're back with our first episode of 2015! Thanks so much everyone for bearing with us. In this episode, AlphaDomme, Miss Rose and Beta Boy have a relaxed living room chat about entry level kink: what kinds of play you can do if you're starting out and a bit unsure of where to begin.

Direct download: PK_ep38.mp3
Category:kink -- posted at: 11:00am PST

Roles can be confusing in kink. You got your kajiras, your slaves, your tops, your bottoms, your pets, your toys your masters and mistresses and kinksters – to name but a few. In this episode we take a quick walk through the vast array of commonly used roles in the world of kink and offer our opinions on what they mean. If you are a newb to kink this episode is for you.

Direct download: mensubmit_ep35.mp3
Category:kink -- posted at: 9:00am PST

In this follow up scene, AlphaDomme, MissRose and BetaBoy play out the scene they had planned and then debrief on what it felt like. The recording quality is not brilliant (on account of the fact that it was recorded in a bedroom!) but you’ll hear a lot of screaming and laughing, which hopefully will make up for any technical deficiencies.

Direct download: mensubmit_ep31.mp3
Category:kink -- posted at: 12:00pm PST

AlphaDomme, MissRose and BetaBoy get together to talk in detail about setting a scene. What do guys like? What do women like? How do you find a middle ground? Where does safety fit in? How do you find creative new ideas? All good questions to discuss but our plans are far more ambitious. We go on to plan an actual, bona fide scene and in part two you will hear how it all goes down. Enjoy!

Direct download: mensubmit_ep30.mp3
Category:kink -- posted at: 12:00pm PST

In this episode we have the great pleasure of introducing Miss Rose, Betaboy’s new domme and AlphaDomme’s metamour. After Betaboy absolutely embarrasses himself gushing at how happy and lucky he feels to be recording a podcast with two mistresses in attendance we get down to the nitty gritty and talk about body worship: what it is, what makes it hot, how to do it and the mental spaces required to make it good. This is our first three way conversation and I think regular listeners will note the excitement as we tumble our way through this sexy discussion topic.

Direct download: mensubmit_ep27.mp3
Category:kink -- posted at: 12:00pm PST